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Hello everybody I’m posting from a burner account for privacy reasons

So I’m visiting my partners family at the moment with our 5 month old. It’s her first time visiting them as we live out of the country

They want to take her to Disneyland without us (my partner and I) but I’ve told them that I was hoping that my daughter and I could experience our first Disney trip together next time we come (she will be 1 next time) (I’ve never been to Disneyland either as I live half way across the world)

I honestly don’t feel comfortable leaving my baby with anyone for more than a couple of hours especially not for an entire day

Add on: they never offer to spend the weekend with her or anything they only ever bring their teenage daughter. So it was out of the blue

Will I be the a\*\*hole if I don’t let them take her?

Edit: I feel like I should add that they have already bought their tickets to go. My partner and I aren’t going as it’s not in our budget this time, I’ll also add updates as they come