
AITA : Boyfriend on diet and is forcing me to be on one too.
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My boyfriend is on a diet (recent) and is trying to eat better. I applaud him because lately his weight has been getting out of control. But we recently got into an argument about what I have been eating. He was upset at how the other night I was eating potato chips while watching a show. He says I was mean to have been eating them in the first place when he is on a diet. We never discussed what would be appropriate to eat in front of each other so I told him I would stop eating chips in front of him or any other junk related foods. But then he goes and says “no we are going to stop buying junk food from now on” and this is where I start getting upset. I tell him that he’s being unreasonable and he shouldn’t do that because I’m not on a diet. Since we live together and have a kid I tell him that just doesn’t make sense. He said that if he’s eating healthy then we all should eat as he eats. While eating healthy is good he’s strictly eating meats and veggies. Me and my daughter shouldn’t have to eat those things 24/7 cause to me that’s just insane. We are not overweight in the slightest so a chocolate snack or a bag of chips here and there will not affect us. Then he told me if I’m not eating healthy then he won’t. (Which he really needs to). I understand that knowing someone is on a diet and purposefully eating junk food in front of them is disrespectful. However idk if forcing someone to be on a diet just because you are is okay or not. I live with him so maybe… idk. I’d like to have some feedback on this issue.
Submitted May 3, 2026 at 11:40PM by Same-Guarantee-5903
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