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My roommate has a habit of borrowing things without asking. Hair ties, earrings, my good moisturiser — all fair game apparently.

Last month she went through my bedside drawer looking for a phone charger.

She found my personal massager.

She was so startled she screamed, which startled ME, and I came running thinking something was wrong.

I then had to stand in my own bedroom doorway watching her explain, red faced, that she thought it was "some kind of weapon."

She's now saying I should have "warned" her that I keep things like that in my drawer and that it was "traumatising."

I said maybe the warning is: don't go through people's drawers.

She's not spoken to me properly in a week.

AITA?