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So a bit of background…
Every so often I (50) will indulge and have a cheat meal. I am pretty strict with my eating habits, but I gotta have a bit of a pressure release day to get the cravings satisfied.

I’ll wake up early the day of, go shopping for my off limits foods or DoorDash something if I don’t feel like leaving the house. I always ask my SO (45) if they want something, sometimes it’s a yes, sometimes a no. On the times it’s a no, I will offer to share what I’m craving.

Here’s where it gets dicey. A lot of times they will reply with a “Not now, maybe later…” so I’ll set some aside, even if I’m still hungry. 99% of the time, what I set aside ends up in the fridge, not eaten, then to the trash it goes.

I don’t usually say anything. The one time I did, they replied with a “You could have just finished it the next day…”

No, I can’t, it’s not my cheat day.

So this weekend, I ended up with a rotisserie chicken, cream cheese, salsa verde, avocados, and some corn tortillas to make some tacos that are a favorite of mine… so good. I also bought a little tray of Brisket Queso from Wally Mart with some chips.

I do my thing, make my tacos, offer her some of what I’m eating, and of course…. “Not now, Maybe later…”

I proceed to devour the Queso, it just hit the spot and I took that tray down.

Fast forward to about 3 hours later…”Where’s the Queso?”

“I finished it…”

“Why didn’t you leave me any? I said I wanted some!?!”

“I was hungry.”

They started pouting, and I got the silent treatment the rest of the day. Later they said I was being selfish and I could have left some.

So AITA?